I agree to the sentiment that Hamsham is expressing here. But I think that Hubschrauber's description of situation #3 should be quite revealing that there are two sides to every story. And quite often in Asylum, especially when you're dealing with stories given to you second-hand, you are simply lacking too much information to make an informed opinion.
My point is, place trust in the community managers and APD captains. If you feel there's a problem, talk to these guys. They're available, reasonable people that are here specifically to deal with the problems you mention. Have a conversation with them. Let them know your concerns and have a dialogue about it. Sometimes you'll see that there's a missing component to the story that you were unaware of or sometimes they'll take actions to rectify the situation. Either way you've got nothing to lose and both parties have a lot to learn.