Believe me, I understand where you are coming from. I started off in a different server and on my first day I was told to put my hands up a total of 5 times and that was even explaining to the people robbing me that I didn't have any idea what the hotkey even was, and that I was new to the game.
People on Asylum have treated me better and at least given some roleplay when they attempt to rob me which I appreciate more than ever since moving to this server.