So This may or may not help anyone but in the case it does I am going to post a wall of text that should help a lot of people. Im sure all of you know most of this since
most of the people in this community are extremely savy in general.
my Problem:
I have been trying for fucking weeks to solve connection issues to Arma3Sync ftp repositories, NAT TYPE problems , and generic connecting to friends who live in the same state.
my Fixes:
- Connections / Port forwarding