yeah man I've heard so much different stuff.
such as : "HEY I JUST GOT REVIVED YOU HAVE TO REINIATIATE
and then other people do the opposite. that's confusing.
then, this red name thing. I think its pretty cool. but there are some grey areas. such as: you have to have counter evidence
to back up your KOS. someone can easily report you, not seeing your character to see if red or not cause say you shot him far away.
Say it's RDM, and you get BANNED! =[