that is not fair tho you told 1 guy hands up or die either that person needs to be the only 1 to be initiated on and your other member has to initiate on the first initiator or you need to have an all button I had a gang do that too be I got banned for rdm you can look at the reports got banned for killing a member of a gang when I initiated on another member.
if it is like that then shit il tell my gang members ahead of time don't let us know you got initiated on and let me report them for rdm just to be a dick like other people do.