Kavala is a place where that tends to happen a lot. Go other places like athira and pyrgos for generally less people/bad peoples. Not everyone is like that, asylum still has good people who will role-play with you. If you ever wanna have a role-play encounter, just have a bounty and turn yourself into the cops. Most officers role-play, some however do not, but if they don't then just ask for a higher up.
If you need help getting started with anything or if you have any questions you can pm me. Same goes to anyone that needs anything. You will always encounter your trolls, and just tell people your new. I've seen some nice people who give new people stuff and help them out.
Just like Mayhem said, if you comply and they shoot you then its RDM. You can report RDM if you have 5 minutes prior to them shooting you, and they shoot you after you've complied or if they shoot without saying anything. Initiation lasts 5 minutes as well (ex. telling someone put their hands up or die).