Don't break the rules and you won't get banned to begin with 😂. Also, if you're ever unsure if you broke a rule whether it be RDM/VDM etc, always give or offer comp for their losses. It'll look better on you if that happened.
And honestly, for the newer players out there, you guys need to learn what is considered "armor" before intentionally ramming. Ifrit v Hunter = allowed. Ifrit v your stolen Tempest/HEMMT = not allowed.